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Nervous about trying again after 2 previous MCs...

Mar 24th, 2018, 13:24 PM   #1
 

Hi everyone! I am 37, with a little boy aged 6. My Husband and I keep talking about TTC again. After having our son who was an Emergency C section, we suffered 2 miscarriages �� One at 12 weeks and the second at around 6 weeks. No idea why, these things happen blah blah, but it put us off because I was so poorly and then for about 12 months after my hormones were all over the place. We are keen to have another baby, we would have more than one if we could, but are so nervous at trying again. Nervous of my age etc too! I have the non hormonal coil in at the moment, so would need that removing first. Which is fine. Anyone else in the same boat?? Good Luck to all in TTC! Xxx
 
 
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Mar 24th, 2018, 14:31 PM   #2
 
Not in the same boat, and I could never imagine the pain you experienced but I wish you all the best in your TTC journey and hope it’s a happy and healthy one x
 
 

 
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Mar 24th, 2018, 14:55 PM   #3
 
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Not in the same boat, and I could never imagine the pain you experienced but I wish you all the best in your TTC journey and hope itís a happy and healthy one x
Hi Ellie,

Thank you so much! Xx
 
 
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Mar 24th, 2018, 15:44 PM   #4
 
Hi, I'm not in the same boat either but just wanted to send you a big hug for the hard times you've been throughI can't imagine the pain. I hope your ttc journey is a short one and that you get to take home your rainbow baby.
When will you get your coil out?
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Mar 24th, 2018, 16:14 PM   #5
 
Hi there,

Thank you so much 💜

Not sure really, just need to speak to the GP and see what they think. Ideally I could do to lose a few pounds but the longer I leave the coil removal, the longer it could take to conceive! I will book an appointment to have a chat and see what they say xx
 
 
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Mar 24th, 2018, 20:19 PM   #6
 
Also not had the same experience but we're all here for support. Good luck in your journey *hugs*
 
 

 
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Mar 24th, 2018, 20:34 PM   #7
 
Hi, I'm in a similar boat. I'm 36, my son is almost 4 and we're going to have my Morena coil removed in May before hopefully ttc in June. My son is a rainbow baby, we had numerous miscarriages before finally carrying him to 37 weeks with severe SPD and PGP and having an emergency c section in the end. My son has had had health issues from birth and when he was about 3 months old I was diagnosed with PTSD related to separate issues. I was petrified of getting pregnant for so long but started thinking about it again about a year ago. It took a lot of soul searching and proper thinking to make sure it was the right thing for us all but we're happy with our decision. I'm still incredibly nervous but hopeful too.
 
 

 
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Mar 24th, 2018, 20:47 PM   #8
 
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Hi, I'm in a similar boat. I'm 36, my son is almost 4 and we're going to have my Morena coil removed in May before hopefully ttc in June. My son is a rainbow baby, we had numerous miscarriages before finally carrying him to 37 weeks with severe SPD and PGP and having an emergency c section in the end. My son has had had health issues from birth and when he was about 3 months old I was diagnosed with PTSD related to separate issues. I was petrified of getting pregnant for so long but started thinking about it again about a year ago. It took a lot of soul searching and proper thinking to make sure it was the right thing for us all but we're happy with our decision. I'm still incredibly nervous but hopeful too.
Hi Mrs Pod. Gosh you have been through it too xx
I wish you all the luck in the world for a happy, stress free time. Keep me up to date with how you get on xx
 
 
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Mar 25th, 2018, 14:13 PM   #9
 
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Hi, I'm in a similar boat. I'm 36, my son is almost 4 and we're going to have my Morena coil removed in May before hopefully ttc in June. My son is a rainbow baby, we had numerous miscarriages before finally carrying him to 37 weeks with severe SPD and PGP and having an emergency c section in the end. My son has had had health issues from birth and when he was about 3 months old I was diagnosed with PTSD related to separate issues. I was petrified of getting pregnant for so long but started thinking about it again about a year ago. It took a lot of soul searching and proper thinking to make sure it was the right thing for us all but we're happy with our decision. I'm still incredibly nervous but hopeful too.
Hi Mrs Pod. Gosh you have been through it too xx
I wish you all the luck in the world for a happy, stress free time. Keep me up to date with how you get on xx
And the same to you xx
 
 

 
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Apr 3rd, 2018, 11:31 AM   #10
 
I am going to ring the Drs and ask how soon they can remove a coil. Then I can decide whether to get it removed sooner or later!
 
 
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Apr 4th, 2018, 15:24 PM   #11
 
Update....

I am booked in to remove my coil on the 18th April! Xx
 
 
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Apr 4th, 2018, 21:06 PM   #12
 
Yay! Not long! Excited? X
 
 

 
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Apr 4th, 2018, 21:07 PM   #13
 
Exciting not long to wait then
 
 

 
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Apr 6th, 2018, 18:50 PM   #14
 
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Update....

I am booked in to remove my coil on the 18th April! Xx
Ooh that's the day after me! I checked the date and glad I did because I was convinced it was 24th, when we're moving house
 
 

 
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Apr 7th, 2018, 14:16 PM   #15
 
Yay Lyndsay! Best of luck and lots of baby dust to you
 
 

 
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