Welcome, Guest. Please Login or Register to join in. Resend Activation Email  |  Forgotten Password?
 


Reply
 
 
TaffyRose
PF Addict
 
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: Hampshire
Posts: 2,427


OH needs to grow up!

Jan 1st, 2012, 23:44 PM   #1
 
Some of you might know from previous posts that I have been struggling with my OH. He's been pretty nasty at times but promised to sort himself out after finding out I was pregnant. Well he hasn't and I get the feeling he isn't going to.

Lately he's been beyond miserable, there's never a reason, he's just constantly moody and constantly takes it out on me. Well today I'd had enough and told him he needs to start appreciating we have more than most and start actually trying to be happy. He then says the problem is he isn't sleeping properly because the dogs wake him up in the morning so he;s decided he's going to sleep at his mum's for a few nights so he can sleep.

To be honest I was relieved so said go for the week, at least I get peace and quiet, but since I've thought and I just want to smack him round the head and tell him to GROW THE HELL UP!! He hasn't thought for a second that I might need my sleep and what about when the baby comes, is he planning to move out because the the poor thing needs his sleep!!

Honestly he's just a spoilt brat!! Rant over xxx
 
 

 
Status: Offline
 
 
 
MrsR
PF Addict
 
Join Date: Feb 2010
Posts: 14,343


Jan 2nd, 2012, 00:03 AM   #2
 
I hope you're ok x I can't offer anything constructive I'm afraid x I just hope you're ok x
 
 

 
Status: Offline
 
 
 
Lisa_85
PF Enthusiast
 
Join Date: May 2011
Location: Sunderland
Posts: 1,032


Jan 2nd, 2012, 00:11 AM   #3
 
Kick him in the head... i don't have any good advice but hope this makes u smile lol
Xx
 
 

 
Status: Offline
 
 
 
pregpixie76
PF Savvy
 
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: west scotland
Posts: 259


Jan 2nd, 2012, 00:37 AM   #4
 
maybe he is suffering from depression or seasonal depression.possibly he isnt happy with the pregnancy.might be time to have a serious talk with him about how he is feeling and behaving.if it is depression then pointing out how much u have isnt gonna cheer him up.
 
 

 
Status: Offline
 
 
 
Amanda W
PF Enthusiast
 
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Manchester uk
Posts: 1,754


Jan 3rd, 2012, 18:50 PM   #5
 
geesh what a arse hole
 
 

 
Status: Offline
 
 
 
CARNAT22
PF Addict
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: London
Posts: 22,719


Jan 4th, 2012, 13:27 PM   #6
 
Sorry to hear you OH is behaving like this Taffy.

Quite frankly it just isn't good enough though! - is it? He is just being plain selfish....

I assume he is not the kind of man that would be up for some counselling to "work through" this difficult time?
 
 

 
Status: Offline
 
 
 
hopefulmummy
PF Enthusiast
 
Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: London
Posts: 1,521


Jan 4th, 2012, 19:40 PM   #7
 
He may have a touch of depression? Or is he just being a miserable git??!!!
 
 

 
Status: Offline
 
 
 
prettypenguin
PF Enthusiast
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Cheshire
Posts: 1,857


Jan 5th, 2012, 17:21 PM   #8
 
Ha thats men for you! My oh is lovely, however C has been waking up at all hours of the morning because of the wind, usually he sleeps through... and even though I always get up withhim he still moans that he cant ever sleep... ppoor them eh, life is so cruel to them
 
 

 
Status: Offline
 
 
 
baby43
PF Rookie
 
Join Date: Nov 2011
Posts: 75


Jan 8th, 2012, 18:30 PM   #9
 
If he is like this now, what's he gonna be like when the baby is born and there's many sleepiness nights for you all.

He should really be staying with you at nights!!!

If you let him run off to his mum's, that means you have given him the chance now and in the future he will take the opportunity to do it again, and leave you to do the hard work!!

He should be standing by you at all times, but he running cause the lack of sleep,he needs to grow up!!

Stay strong HUN take the peace and quiet try not to stress over a man, it's not worth the tears. XX
 
 
Status: Offline
 
 
 
babyem
PF Addict
 
Join Date: Nov 2011
Location: Lancashire
Posts: 9,869


Jan 10th, 2012, 12:53 PM   #10
 
Chin up and stay strong! x
 
 

 
Status: Offline
 
 
Reply

grow

Thread Tools


Related Threads
Thread Forum
30week midwife appointment.... grow baby grow!!!! Third Trimester
When did your bumps grow? Third Trimester
Don't want him to grow up Baby & Toddler
anyone grow their own....? The Lounge
When I grow up..... The Lounge
Why do they have to grow up! Second Trimester