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Momma`Kat
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Jun 21st, 2011, 12:49 PM   #1
 
my boyfriend is driving me CRAZY!

When i met him he was laid back and happy, and silly, and just generally good company!

4 months in (ish) he has turned into a paranoid, nitpicking, controlling, needy, oversensitive pain in the ass!



im soooo close to giving up on the whole thing, but im kinda holding out hope he will change back?
 
 

 
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Jun 21st, 2011, 12:53 PM   #2
 
Is there anything stressing him out making him be like that?
 
 
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Jun 21st, 2011, 12:55 PM   #3
 
4 months is a bit early for problems, if theres nothing bothering him get rid! xxx
 
 
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Jun 21st, 2011, 13:10 PM   #4
 
If i try and talk to him, he ends up blowing it up into an argument, and its all things -ive- done making him paranoid >.< when im trying to do the opposite! i tell him where im goin when ill be back, i have aim on my phone so im not out of touch, he has acess to my computer... *sigh*

driving me crazy >.<
 
 

 
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Jun 21st, 2011, 13:37 PM   #5
 
he sounds like he's getting very controlling for 4 months, its not a good sign, don't let him get away with it, it won't get better, only worse hun. Don't let someone you barely know take over your life xxx
 
 

 
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Jun 21st, 2011, 13:39 PM   #6
 
He sounds way too over bearing. A relationship shouldn't be about you trying to do all things right just to keep him happy and avoid rows. Does he have to act the same way with you - tell you where he's going, when he'll be back etc etc, and do you have access to all his computer details/accounts etc. You're only 4 months into a relationship - still basically in the "honeymoon period". This needs stopped one way or other now. xxx
 
 

 
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Jun 21st, 2011, 13:51 PM   #7
 
Honestly , so early into a relationship and behaving like that . I would have serious words with him and if it wasnt getting through to him I get rid , that behaviour is way OTT and sounds like the beginnings of something worse .
 
 

 
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Jun 21st, 2011, 14:35 PM   #8
 
i agree with the other ladies im afraid... 4 months and he's already behaving like that??? if he's like that now who knows what he oculd be like further down the line??? the fact he has ur computer access too doesnt seem healthy.... trust is the most important thing in a relationship and i know it's very cliché but if you havent got trust... is it a relationship worth having??
 
 

 
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Jun 21st, 2011, 15:21 PM   #9
 
Just agreeing with what all the girls have said. 4 months is way too early for serious problems. He sounds really overbearing and you shouldn't have to explain yourself and give access to your pc etc. It does sound like he has alot of insecurities and issues there and just be careful hun, he defo needs a talkin to!!
 
 
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Jun 21st, 2011, 15:30 PM   #10
 
I would say get rid. If he's like that now it won't get better, you got a daughter n you wouldn't want her to grow up around a man who's so controlling n disrespectful. Get rid of him now you n your girl deserve better x
 
 
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