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Doesn't look good :(

Feb 14th, 2017, 22:35 PM   #1
 
Last night my wife had some blood after going to the loo, not loads but some.

We went to A&E had blood tests and urine tests and was referred to the early pregnancy unit.

Today we went for a scan (thinking we were around 9 weeks) however only measured at 6 weeks with no heart beat (couldn't see anything with normal scan so had to have vaginal scan).

We were told no heartbeat at 6 weeks isn't a worry on its own usually, but because our dates and the bleeding it's likely that a miscarriage has happened. There was a sac a pole and something else (all in the correct place).

We are booked in again for ten days to see if there is any growth and heart beat.

We've been through the dates again and my other halves last period started on the 11th Dec and tested positive on 8th Jan, so we are fearing the worst.

This will be our second miscarriage in the last six months.

I think the not knowing is the worst as we are unable to move on.

Thanks for listening to me rant
 
 
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Feb 14th, 2017, 23:52 PM   #2
 
Im sorry your going through this.
There are many women on here who've had repeated losses and its absolutely heartbreaking. This sounds similar to my first and 6th MC, i was supposed to be further on but baby was measuring smaller but did have a HB and with the 6th the HB had gone at 8 weeks, a few days after i miscarried with both.
Im sorry to put it bluntly but i think the Drs are right It does sound like a miscarriage from mine and reading others experiences, im so sorry.
The ladies on this forum are very supportive as i said lots of us have been though it and know how your feeling.
 
 
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Feb 15th, 2017, 00:17 AM   #3
 
I'm so sorry, I agree with PB it doesn't look good. If she got a positive almost 5 weeks ago it would be impossible to be 6 weeks. I really hope this isn't the case but would rather be honest!

I had 2 losses in 6 months and it's so hard. I hope you're both as okay as can be! Xx
 
 
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Feb 15th, 2017, 16:04 PM   #4
 
I am so sorry for what you're going through. Waiting for the follow up scans is the worst. I had the same thing with one of my pregnancies, should have been 8-9 weeks but measured 6. Baby did have a heartbeat but they could tell things didn't look quite right. There are lots of ladies on here who have had multiple miscarriages (I have had 4) and if your or your partner need support then it is a great forum for that. Again, I am so sorry xx
 
 
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Feb 15th, 2017, 23:25 PM   #5
 
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I had pretty much the same situation with my first miscarriage - by my dates I was 8weeks +4 days but scan showed I was only six weeks and no HB. I miscarried at home while waiting for our follow up scan.

I have had three miscarriages in a row and had tests done to try and find out why but they all came back normal. I'm now 28 weeks pregnant and touch wood all is going well.

I hope and pray that you and your wife get your rainbow baby and once again I'm so very sorry you're going through this.

XX
 
 
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Feb 16th, 2017, 01:15 AM   #6
 
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I'm so sorry you're going through this. I had pretty much the same situation with my first miscarriage - by my dates I was 8weeks +4 days but scan showed I was only six weeks and no HB. I miscarried at home while waiting for our follow up scan.

I have had three miscarriages in a row and had tests done to try and find out why but they all came back normal. I'm now 28 weeks pregnant and touch wood all is going well.

I hope and pray that you and your wife get your rainbow baby and once again I'm so very sorry you're going through this.

XX
Emily it's very reassuring to read your post. I have just had miscarriage number 3 (no kids) and it's hard to not lose your s**t with it sometimes. Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy. We will be getting referred to recurrent miscarriage clinic now. X
 
 
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Feb 16th, 2017, 06:17 AM   #7
 
So sorry to hear this.

My thoughts with you both xx
 
 
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Feb 17th, 2017, 03:00 AM   #8
 
I'm similar too. I've had 4 in a row and all sound similar to your story x I hope for the best for you but be prepared. X x x I'm also expecting in may too so I hope you too get your rainbow soon x
 
 
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