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MrsDraven
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Jul 24th, 2011, 16:06 PM   #31
 
Thank you Dyscochick x
 
 
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Jul 25th, 2011, 17:32 PM   #32
 
how are you all doing today?
second day of AF today and everything looks normal as before.hopefully thats the end of my messed up hormones..
i hope i will hear great new from all of you, me oh so lazy i was today, i could barely get out of bed so nth really to report. i am stack in front of my pc trying to study but thats not going so good. also the nice weather outside dosent really help lol. Here i am in Norway wishing to be cloudy lol. Be careful of what you wish lol....
 
 
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Jul 25th, 2011, 17:32 PM   #33
 
oh and Kanga? how are you today? Did that bleeding finally stop?
 
 
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Jul 25th, 2011, 18:37 PM   #34
 
No I'm still bleeding on and off, going from brown when I wipe to random small gushes of red (tmi). Really unsure what to think. Wednesday afternoon can't come round quick enough

I had a lazy morning followed by a mad dash around to tidy, do some washing, polish etc before coming in to work. Don't want to get moaned at my my oh for being totally lazy! Lol

Hoping to apply for a new job, I currently am a cleaner at a leisure centre with horrible hours ( finish at 9pm some nights and start at 4.30am others) horrible shift work!! You g to apply to be a small van delivery driver as I will have more hours a week, more money to save for a LO and more time with oh as working the same hours! Wish me luck! Xx
 
 
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Jul 25th, 2011, 18:50 PM   #35
 
you should get an ultrasound soon to check that. i hope you will fell better son. i know all about working at horrible hours....
 
 
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Jul 25th, 2011, 18:54 PM   #36
 
That's what wed afternoon appt is for, got to wait til 3pm! Going to be along day!! Xx
 
 
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Jul 25th, 2011, 20:04 PM   #37
 
hope scan goes OK kanga, must be so frustrating with the bleeding ongoing.
Really wanted a lazy day today and was productive but not at work, spent the day procrastinating and wedding planning
Venue is booked, registrar is booked, quotes for caterers, bands and photographers on their way. Problem with distracting myself from MC is that I'm likely to spend a small fortune on wedding when its supposed to be small and inexpensive! We aren't haveing a sit down do, BBQ and hog roast in a gorgeous barn venue in the brecon beacons so excited
 
 
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Jul 25th, 2011, 21:32 PM   #38
 
i lost our baby last oct/nov because of aneacaphaly, i am lucky enough to be back in tri 1 at moment hopefully with a more positive outcome, but i just wanted to send my love and hope for you all, things are horrible when they happen and you dont forget but it does with time become easier praying for you all to have lots of support and love your way at such a difficult time xxxx
 
 
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Jul 25th, 2011, 22:35 PM   #39
 
wow dysco u are getting really organised with ur wedding!! Sounds amazing! xx

I do really want this to be over soon, although I am not feeling sad about the mc now, kinda going through a numb phase! Probably doesn't help that my great grandad passed away on friday, at the ripe old age of 102! Don't think I am going to the funeral though, not sure I could handle it mentally and emotionally. xx
 
 
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Jul 26th, 2011, 09:48 AM   #40
 
love hearing wedding plans sounds so exciting dysco

k8 i hope everything will go perfect with you this time

kanga so sorry for your grandad 102 sounds amazing lol. i would advice you to go to the funeral even if its for only several minutes as you may feel sorry after that that you didnt. i ams till sorry that i missed my grandmas funeral as i wasnt in country

I am not feeling sad about the mc either and oh attitude was a great help. he keeps refering to our LO and making plans and look around at the supermarket for baby gear prices etc, acting as we are still expecting a baby in 9 months lol. i am looking forward for my AF to finish and everything to go back to normal. i never had a 2WW as first time was quite unplanned so i am kind exciting to maybe go through that. we are just not preventing for the follow months so no obsessing about if it will happen or not.

a rainy day here today, and 13 degrees, perfect for studying i would say so back to my books i go. i am so not looking forward for my vacation to finish lol even if i am spending most of my time studying instead of a beach. i like being lazy around the house instead of working :P
 
 
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Jul 26th, 2011, 10:07 AM   #41
 
Hope I'm with you, OH attitude makes a world of difference. We've been able to be so open with each other when it hurts and when we are thinking about the future. I just can't wait for xmas so we can start trying again. I was the same as you, and didn't have a 2WW cos it was a surprise, not trying not to get pregnant meant I still wasn't really thinking it would happen. I just hope I'm not too obsessed when we get to that point, but I think I probably will be now.

I think I was probably a bit naive when I first came on the forum, so many of my friends and me included had fallen pregnant so easily that having problems felt like something that happened to other people, now its very very real and I think I understand some of the girls on here better who have had problems.

Fingers crossed for you k8!

And Kanga I too missed my grandmothers funeral because I was out of the country and feel so sad that I did. If you can make it even for a short while, in the long term it might be for the best xx
 
 
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Jul 26th, 2011, 13:07 PM   #42
 
Hi ladies, ive had 2 MC's this year one in January and one in May.

I was devastated and wondered what I did to deserve such bad luck. We are trying again now and hopefully will get a sticky bean this time.

Good luck to you all

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Jul 26th, 2011, 14:02 PM   #43
 
Sorry to hear that Spinney, fingers crossed and baby dust for this one to be a sticky bean!
 
 
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Jul 26th, 2011, 15:53 PM   #44
 
Nice to see u back again spinney, fingers crossed and good luck for a sticky bean xx
 
 
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Jul 26th, 2011, 19:05 PM   #45
 
Having a pretty crap day.

Today should have been my 12 week scan. I'm also wondering if I have PMT as I've been feeling pretty down for the last couple of day, questioning the relationship I'm in and whether I'm happy not having kids. The thing is, whats to say I'd find someone else I was as happy with who also wanted children...and if I'd ever conceive again anyway.

I just feel that time has ran out for me. It's like someone handed me the most precious gift in the world and snatched it away. I'm angry at myself for accepting the doctors advice all those years ago that I'd never conceive naturally, when in reality it may have been as simple as timing/working out my cycle.

I'm going to stop now as this is sounding like a 'poor me' rant when there are people out there probably far worse off than I am.
 
 
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