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Parisa
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Jul 30th, 2014, 11:01 AM   #1
 
Hi ladies, I am very new here. I already posted an introduction of myself called:
"I am new here". I was hoping for some new friends who could support me.
But for some weird reason, not one person even responded to my post. 34 people read it, but I got no response.
So I am gonna try again. Actually I am doing really badly and I got nobody , absolutely nobody in my life that I can even talk to. I am bawling as I am typing this. My tears are not stopping.
I am hyperventilating as I am typing and I don't know what is wrong with me....?
Okay, I gotta go now.
 
 
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Jul 30th, 2014, 13:07 PM   #2
 
Hi hun and welcome. Im sure no one ment to be rude. Most of us have kids or jobs so often don't have much time in the day. It gets busier on an evening. Hope your ok x
 
 
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Jul 30th, 2014, 13:28 PM   #3
 
I'm new too so just wanted to say hi. You don't say what kind of support you need, whereabouts are you on your pregnancy journey? Maybe you could chat to your GP about how you are feeling and they could suggest a support group local to where you live?
Take care x
 
 
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Jul 30th, 2014, 13:40 PM   #4
 
Hi Hun as wifey said I'm sure no one meant to be rude. Hope you ok with your anxiety I have suffered anxiety myself and it's not nice. Xx
 
 

 
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Jul 30th, 2014, 17:47 PM   #5
 
Hello. Congratulations on your pregnancy. Anxiety is a horrible thing, I have to deal with it myself too and I've already experienced how it can get worse with pregnancy hormones. Hope you can see your doctor soon, and this forum is very supportive!
 
 
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Aug 4th, 2014, 13:12 PM   #6
 
Hi, Hope your ok
 
 
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Parisa
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Aug 21st, 2014, 10:16 AM   #7
 
Hi ladies, thanks for all of your replies.
I just don't know how much more I can bear. I am bawling as I am typing this. I am devastated.
I suffer from hyperemesis gravidarum. I have no idea how to spell it.
Anyways, when I vomit, I really vomit and it goes on for hours, berry fifteen minutes, I throw up very violently.
I am still so kind to cook for my husband. When I don't eat the dinner that I make, he keeps saying: you have to eat, you have to eat. He sees it right in front of his own eyes, of how much I vomit. If I was to take a single bite, I would vomit right away. I am losing so much water , and my vomits are very violent. He still wants e to eat the same he i eating.
I still sit at the dinner table with him, but instead, I eat fruit or something cold....to make me feel better.
He treats me like dirt trash and give me such bad attitude for not eating the dinner that I cooked.
I have tried to silk to him about it and tell him that it is healthier for me to eat something I won't end up throwing up.
And he says: oaky, okay fine, just do whatever you want.
I can't stand this anymore. He doesn't even care bout my well being, or how horrible it feels to vomit like that.
Today, my throat was bleeding.
 
 
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Aug 21st, 2014, 12:39 PM   #8
 
Hey There,

I'm really new to this site myself as well as to the whole pregnancy journey. After reading your post, I can somewhat relate. I've been super emotional off and on for the last couple days, ever since finding out I was pregnant. I know what you mean in regards to hardly any support elsewhere. It is sad that your husband is not more supportive of you and what you're going through. Maybe he just doesn't know how you're feeling or how to cope with things. It can be difficult for both of you. As for your violent vomiting, that definitely doesn't sound good; especially the bleeding throat. My advice to you would be to go and see a doctor. If you're not able to keep anything down its really not good for you.

Just want to let you know that I am here if you ever need to talk.

Good luck!
 
 
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Aug 25th, 2014, 09:43 AM   #9
 
Hi there, thank you so much for ur reply.
Congrats on ur pregnancy!
So how are you doing so far? I am a great listener.
As for me, everything is the same. Very emotional and I can't stop crying.
I moved away from the city of where my mom and sis live. I feel sop lonely here. My in-laws live five minutes away, but they disrespect me a lot and don't treat me right.
 
 
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