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Oct 17th, 2010, 21:37 PM   #76
 
Huge hugs Terrie, have you asked him why he brought that up? Hope you're ok

Congrats on the christening Ria sounds like you and your LO had a lovely day!

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Oct 17th, 2010, 21:47 PM   #77
 
sometimes i think men have some bad issues! sometimes my OH can completely go off on one for nothing! i just ignore him til he comes to say sorry, lol. i hope you's get it sorted hun. arguing is not nice! xxx
 
 

 
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Oct 18th, 2010, 18:10 PM   #78
 
Terrie i cant understand why he would dredge up such an awful subject with you when its clearly going to upset you. He really can be very insensetive at times eh?

I'm so pleased the christening went well ria sounds like you had a lovely day. We are getting both LO's christened in OH's catholic church. I'm not catholic but its what OH wants. I have the cutest little outfits for them Were having a reception/party afterwards and then back to OH's parents house to party some more (his family love a good knees up ) The boys are sleeping there so we can put them to bed and get rather merry.

I have had a really positive day today. I woke up and looked in the mirror and told myself that today WILL be a good day and it was The boys have been so good, not a tear all day and lucas has even ate food he has had chicken and veg puree, banana and rice pudding and strawberry angel delight. There anibiotics are working (i can tell by the nappies lol) and they are alot happier. I also made a few changes to my routine today. I used to stress myself trying to do housework and laundry etc but now i am only going to do it when i get the chance. Kinda like working the chores around the kids rather than working the kids around the chores. Does that make sense?

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Oct 18th, 2010, 20:15 PM   #79
 
yeah that makes sense Toon! i should think like that more often, i am always worrying about the housework 24/7, i even asked OH's mum to help out with all the ironing! sometimes it gets all on top of you eh? your christening plans sound lovely OH's family are the same with parties, it's the best way! hehe. i hope you have lots and lots of fun

how are you today terrie?

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Oct 18th, 2010, 20:40 PM   #80
 
terrie are you ok?

well done toon for waking up with an posetiv attetude and having a fab day!

ria will we get to see some pics?
 
 
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Oct 18th, 2010, 21:29 PM   #81
 
Terrie! Where are you! Hope your ok. If you don't feel like talking just post a smiley to let us know how you are xx
 
 

 
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Oct 18th, 2010, 22:13 PM   #82
 
bad day... Going for a bath now... Then I'm going to see charls in the mornin then my session at 2pm

glad Youve had a better day toony baby, hugs to everybody xx
 
 

 
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Oct 18th, 2010, 22:16 PM   #83
 
Scrap that colin just got in the bath so now I'm in bed!
 
 

 
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Oct 18th, 2010, 23:16 PM   #84
 
I'm sorry I haven't really read what anyone wrote. Just need to talk.
Feel so low today. Leaving the kids for Uni this morning I was verging crying.
When I got home, couldn't wait to c the kids, weighed myself, and lost nothing. Proper gutted. Me and my bf had a stupid argument about it because he said I had to exercise as well as eat healthy etc. I asked when am I meant to do this (Uni 2 days a week, placement three days a week, assignments and 2000 words a week too, and somehow manage to fond time so my kids still know im here and love them) stupid argument , but haven't spoken to him since as just too low today.
Also, prob reason y everything else seems extreme, I think my baby hates me. He'll smile at me... But when he's like that, I.e just now, I picked him up to give him a big hug and he started screaming. And he'll calm down much easier for my bf.
Literally only for a few seconds, but earlier I was thinking, if I was gone, he wouldn't even notice or remember me. What kills it, is it's true.
Sorry, I came to bed crying my eyes out and have no one to talk to coz my bf thinks as I'm on anti depressants and was feeling bit better, that it's all gone. And I feel stupid and I just wish my son loved me
Feeling all this more,
 
 
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Oct 19th, 2010, 07:23 AM   #85
 
Oh leeanne massive hugs I hope you managed to get some sleep and you feel better today x
 
 

 
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Oct 19th, 2010, 08:01 AM   #86
 
Oh leeanne I hope you got some sleep and wake up today feeling a little better
sorry you had a bad day yesterday terrie, hope your session goes well today, let us know how you get on.
Lucas had a rough night last night so I'm really tired so not feeling so positive today. I'm trying to think of something to do with the kids to make it a good day xx
 
 

 
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Oct 19th, 2010, 08:22 AM   #87
 
toon sorry you had a bad night, it's pissing it down here bleugh!!
 
 

 
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Oct 19th, 2010, 10:52 AM   #88
 
morgan had a bad night too, im shattered and feeling like crap. im starting to think i do have PND. leanne hun babies do cry more fortheir mummies cos you still smell of breastmilk to a baby and that just makes them a bit crazy, like a woman on a diet smelling chocolate my baby does it too the men dont smell of food to them.

sorry to hear everyones stories i just feel so sad how many awful people there are in the world.
 
 

 
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Oct 19th, 2010, 12:11 PM   #89
 
aw seems like it's not been a good couple of days for anyone. how are you today tiny, leanne and terrie? i hope you're feeling a bit more positive. leanne - your boyfriend needs to understand it takes time to control your thoughts, and no tablet out there will make those feelings instantly go away! it's the talking about it that makes it a bit better, the tablets are just there to help. and tiny, your health visitor should give you a PND form to fill out to see if you score high then you would go to the doctors and they sort it out for you. i hope it's that you're just having a bad day though hun

i'm feeling pretty anxious today. flat is a mess and i have no energy to clean it. i just want to sleep, i'm so run down and got a really bad cough and blocked nose. the thing is my flat is too pristine and when there is any dirt it's all i can think about. hairs all over the floor because i malt in the winter. little stains i can't get rid of on the laminate. i think i actually NEED to move to a house with a carpet sometimes i physically can't take it! and i feel like all i ever do is wash wash WASH stupid clothes. the dirty washing is never ending! i just wanna curl up in my bed and never wake up some days. but then i see Riley's smile and it makes getting out of bed worth it. i eat so much rubbish at the minute and have a headache every day. i think i will go to OH's mums today when he goes to work as i need some company. she said she'd help me tidy tomorrow after new baby group so that's ok i guess

and yes you can all see piccies of christening as soon as i get them! just waiting for an email of most of them. i have a few on my facebook though if anyone wants to look www.facebook.com/thesaltfamily.x

hope people are feeling more positive than me today! xxx to all
 
 

 
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Oct 19th, 2010, 12:14 PM   #90
 
Bleurghhh!! Thats all i have to say about my day so far
Hope everyone is ok Why is it when i am down i just want to go out and spend money on stuff i don't need or particularly want!! xx
 
 

 
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