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clairemumof3
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my 9 year old son

Sep 23rd, 2011, 11:56 AM   #1
 
as got such a bad attitude and is always shouting and getting aggresive with his little bro and sis.He always seems to be in trouble and i feel all i do it shout at him.I tired to talk to him but he says nobody likes him and this morning he said he wanted to live somewhere else and he hates having a bro and sis.I am thinking of haveing another baby nxt year but dont know if it a good idea with the way he is at the mi.When on the rare occasion me and my 9 yr old spend time just me and him hes so diffrent.I really dont know what to do .
 
 
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Sep 24th, 2011, 02:16 AM   #2
 
I think you answered the question hun, when he's with just you , he's so different. Perhaps he's craving attention from just you!

Do you have one on one time with just him ?
If not perhaps you could introduce this to your weekly routine? Go to the park take him for a little treat.

How old are the younger ones? What's the situation at home?

Inbox me if u want to, I mentor little ones this age at primary school , might be able to help

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Sep 24th, 2011, 02:52 AM   #3
 
O think 1 one 1 is the answer. Also u have to find a way to decipline him without shouting, for him bad attention seem better then no attention? X
 
 
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clairemumof3
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Sep 24th, 2011, 12:05 PM   #4
 
Thanks ladies no i dont spend much time alone with him as i should.My other two are 4 and 5 there always seem to argue amoung themselfs an everytime one of them get hurt ( the 4 and 5 yr old) there always blame the older child i do think i get at him more without really finding out what really happened.I am gong to spend more 1 and 1 even if it just a walk dont want him to think he aint cared about.
 
 
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