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having another one?

Jul 11th, 2013, 01:25 AM   #1
hi all

im almost like a newbie here, i remembered my old log ins so forgive my ignorance!

LO is 1 yr old next week and im flitting and fluting about whether to have another.
im 30 partners 38
we have the one LO and he has 9 yr old from previous relationship.

hes happy to stay where we are but im just not sure.

i want to give my girl everything, be there for her, treat her like my little princess, but what if i had another girl!? i just cant seem to answer that question.

how do mums have 2 and share the love?
im finding it so difficult and i have to decide quick as partner doesnt want one after 40 yrs old.

thanks in advance.

(i was an only child!)

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Jul 11th, 2013, 02:04 AM   #2
The love disnt split in two you just get more
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Jul 11th, 2013, 10:35 AM   #3
I was an only child and I definitely want two - you will have more love and love them both equally and they will love each other too.

I found as a child being an only one could be quite lonely at times.
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Jul 13th, 2013, 22:48 PM   #4
love is limitless, theres no competition it can be shared and isnt halved. im gonna have DD2 in sept and i know i will love them both equally and will find time and space to give them both the attention and love they need and deserve

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Jul 14th, 2013, 09:46 AM   #5
I love my girls already so can't imagine that I will love them any differently than I do my son!

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